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10
Apr

Shift Breakout Session 2 - The Junior High Worshipper

Brandon Grissom Elevate Declaration:

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    • We are loved by God
    • We see ourselves the way God sees us
    • We love everyone (even when it hurts)
    • We do stuff that makes the world a better place

Greek > Proskuneo > Kiss

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    • Romans 12:1

Junior High = Change

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    • voice is changing
    • new way of school
    • body is changing
    • everyone looks different - one showed up with a beard last week

5 needs of JR HIGH students

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    • Physical - rapid growth, voice change, energy levels.  Need to provide a place where they can move around and get out some energy - physical outlet
    • Social - the primary thing of life. obsessed with connecting with friends.  myspace, xbox live, texting, etc.  Get them to talk to people - have a greeting time.  (just had an idea - provide a card and pen and have them go to 5 people they don’t know and write down their myspace url or facebook name and invite them)
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      • Saying at elevate - everyone here is cool. If you are attending here, then you are cool
    • Intellectual - questions.  They need a safe place where they can ask question.  As a worship leader - no churchy language and explain songs! What does hallelujah mean?
    • Emotionally - Face serious self-esteem issues.  We need to provide an outlet where students can pray through their hurts.  Set up prayer stations for students can go to during the service
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      • They put down butcher paper and told them to write down prayer request - got some serious stuff. Kind of luck we did with our dirty secrets cards!
    • Spiritual - they are questioning you, childhood faith, curious about what friends believe. 

Starting a band Vs Creating a worship culture

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    • Student involvement vs Student ownership
    • Limited Band Openings vs Unlimited creative serving opportunities
    • Oldest, most gifted musicians get to play vs musicians are placed in bands of similar age and skill level
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      • Older musicians give lessons to younger musicians
      • True intergenerational - one 50 yr old who is an awesome example of service and being Christ-like
      • authenticity should always trump relevance - you will lose your coolness - students care more about how real you are and not how cool you are
    • One band vs multiple bands
    • Live worship music vs Worship through music, arts, video, open-mic sharing, interactive experiences, and serving opportunities
    • no adults allowed vs specific adults are chosen to provide intergenerational leadership to young artists
    • Sing popular Christian songs vs Create original worship music, explain the “churchy” language of pop-christian songs
    • Avoids “secular” music vs Embrace that “everything good” comes from God - therefore content can some from a variety of places, not just Christian radio
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      • just said we could use radiohead
    • Planning is optional vs Planning is vital
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      • Quickly involve the first musicians that knock on your door vs Carefully create a process for recruiting retaining, and releasing artists
  • Build into yourself:
    • Family first
    • Daily scripture and quiet time
    • Find people to grow with - meet weekly - I meet wednesday nights from 8-11
    • Worship Privately

Take home stuff:

  • Do we have anyone who can write songs?
  • Recruit from outside of the church - where do I find them?
  • Don’t plug in everyone - lay in the groundword - process for joining (almost done with ours)
  • Audition - bring own equipment - bring a song they know - metronome for drummer - don’t do 4/4 do other signatures - everytime i point to them they do a fill and then get back to the song
  • Find people to do the lessons
  • Light of the world give students glow sticks
10
Apr

Shift Session 3 - Shane Claiborne

  • Luke 7:18-21
  • Study from Barna - preceptions of christians
  1. We are anti-gay
  2. We are judgemental
  3. We are hypocritical
  • Marlboro miles make great Bible bookmarks
  • Jesus never talked to a prostitute.  He talked to little girls who He was deeply in love with!

I had to stop taking notes and just listen. Man Shane is amazing.  So simple, yet so effective!

09
Apr

Shift Session 2 - Mark Yaconelli

Failure, Frustration & Loss: The Youth Workers Path to Holiness

  •  Luke 5:1-11
  • “Don’t know what kind of crud they are feeding you, but we got buffet in the green room”
  • What the experience feels like to be a goldfish - a student leader
  • Do you remember what it felt like when you first discovered Youth Ministry? - the world became 3D, color came into the world. You didn’t have to have devotions, you laid in bed at night asking to be pleasing to him and what to do next
  • “you showed up to bring cookies one time, then you were tricked into working 45 hours a week”
  • “what if we did Cinco de Jesus on Cinco de mayo.  Don’t know if God has 5 attributes, but I’ll find them. We’ll have tacos and sombreros. Two kids show up, no we didn’t know anything about it.”
  • “I feel inadequate”
  • “You never lose hair as a male. It just retires to Florida. Florida on my real estate is my nipples. I apologize for those of you who are visual.”
  • “Youth ministry is designed to break you”
  • “The calling is to be a spiritual guide. To be a spiritual guide you have to spend time in the Spirit.  We must be broken.”
  • “The problem in youth ministry is there are kids involved.”
  • Thank God for the tough kids who bring you to be dependent on God and be broken instead of praying they go somewhere else.
  • The invitation is the invitation we see in Luke 5
  • When Jesus invited them, they had no education, probably not moral, all they had were empty boats.  They were available and had time.  When was the last time you had time in your schedule?
  • The american culture is inter-woven in how we see/ignore/serve/worship God
  • “whose the good baby? the one who will sit and watch TV and not cry and doesn’t ask for things. Whose the bad baby? the one who cries and needs you and wants to be with you.  Kids today are abandoned.  We substitute anything we can for relationships.”
  • The spiritual life is about subtraction, not addition.  You have all you need. Your desire for God and to love kids is enough. If you’ll trust it. If you’ll wait. If you’ll sit in the struggle.  You don’t have to be overtaken by greed, consumerism, envy of other ministries.  Jesus will give you the ideas and creativity.
  • We need to pray that we will just be open to whatever to God
  • Sabbath is not a suggestion it’s a commandment. Don’t kill anyone, take a sabbath. Kind of implying if you don’t take a day off you might kill someone.
  • Slow down and read the newspaper and instead of skipping the crying african lady on the front to head to the golden globes, take the time to sit and absorb that picture and cry over it
  • maybe your poverty is your greatest gift
  • Jesus gets in the boat and takes them right back out into the frustrations of the lake. Sitting out all night not catching anything.  Then once out there in the frustration with Jesus, the food comes.
  • The invitation is to become real.
  • Mark did a great job of bringing in what Brian said in the previous session
09
Apr

Shift Session 1 - Brian McLaren

brian-mclaren.png Everything must change

  • Used to recruit teenagers to go to heaven, instead we need to recruit teenagers for missions and getting involved. Because lot’s of people are waking up trying to recruit students for money, fame, etc.
  • (this was from the 70’s when he was a volunteer) What issues are going on in your church? - charismatic movement, jeans in church, drums and guitar in church, freewill destination
  • (this was from the 70’s when he was a volunteer) What issues keep you up at night? over population, nuclear war, famine, disease
  • Every kid he recruited to get serious about church he felt he was doing wrong b/c they would grow up to argue about church things instead of the other list!
  • 2 questions from his book, “everything must change”: what are the top 5 global issues. What did Jesus say about global issues
  • Went over the 8 Millennium Development Goals from the UN - never heard of it
  • 4 Global Crises: 
  • Social machine - what do humans want? Prosperity.  Then comes Security to protect the Prosperity. Equity to pay for prosperity and security.
    • 1st Crises: Planetary/Prosperity Crises - the planet cannot handle our way of life. Global Warming, oil, water
    • 2nd Crises: Equity Crises - 
    • 3rd Crises: Security Crises - instead of the rich saying let’s help those poor people they say let’s get more guns because they are going to come after us.
    • 4th Crises: Religious/Framing Story - Our cells are all unified in the story of me.  Usually stories come from religion.  Very often our religions are very often driving us to baptize our own story people
  • Four Stories:
    • Domination/Empire - We’re in charge and it’s going to be great
    • Revolution/Redemptive War - We’re not in charge but we should be
    • Revenge/Scapegoating - we’re in charge but the reasons things aren’t going well is because it is (fill in the blank’s) fault
    • Isolation/Withdrawal - Forget it, it’s all going down let’s withdrawal and get in our own bubble make it right for us
  • Very close to Jesus’ day:
    • Domination/Empire - Sadducees, Heodians
    • Revolution - Zealots
    • Revenge - Pharisees
    • Isolation - Essenes
  • Jesus Proclaimed a radically different framing story (another word for story is news) Jesus said I have a better story/news, “Good News”
  • All of those stories lead to nowhere.  Caesar cannot meet all of those needs and it won’t work.
26
Mar

Representin’ tonight

Well I have prepared and prepared and prepared and now it is up to God to speak through me.  

I feel really good about this message and I can’t wait to see what God is going to do tonight! This is the first time in years I have preached from my own message and not one that was written out for me!

I will blog tonight or tomorrow about how it went

Thanks to you that have been praying for me!

The message is called Everybody Hurts and it is dealing with the fear of fruit salad and how it relates to homogenized milk. Just kidding it deals with hurt!

24
Mar

Awesome Staff Team

We had our weekly Truth Staff meeting today.  It was really cool today because we talked about planning for the summer. But I have to say my favorite part was when I was telling them what I wanted to do during my sermon.  To build suspense I won’t say what it is. But lets just say the preparation involves some adult volunteers, woodworking, tables, pens, candles, black fabric. When I said my idea they were pumped up and immediately started delegating the different jobs to people and said don’t worry about it, we’ll take care of all that stuff. Did I mention woodworking? They are going to build something for me (nothing major, but still).

I just think it awesome to see them jump up and before I could even ask if they would help, they just took it and ran with it! They also ran a lot further than I would have ran with it. That’s the benefit of a team! Thanks guys!

Now that I’ve made it sound way more special than it is come Wednesday night and check it out!

03
Mar

Watching a Porn Debate

Saw this at Josh’s blog. 

I love what Craig is doing over at xxxchurch.com.

I’m praying for Ron Jeremy to have a change of heart!

Everyone should watch this. Parents, teens, adults, husbands, wives.

http://www.abcnews.go.com/Nightline/FaceOff 

27
Jan

You Version

YouVersion

I know I have said this before, but you have to check out youversion.com. It is already a great bible program. But it will be amazing once people start using it fully.

14
Dec

straw house management

I loved this post from Tony Morgan.

The moral of this story is this: If all I’ve known is straw houses and I control every detail of their construction, then my leadership will never generate brick house ideas.

01
Nov

Festival of Life Pics

Just uploaded some pics to Flickr from the Festival of Life @ Highlands Fellowship.

28
Oct

Back to Work

  • Well today was my first day back @ work.
  • I am humbled that God has given me the opportunity to work for Him.
  • Today was a celebration instead of the normal, “Crap I gotta go back to work”
  • I was honored to baptize a middle schooler today
  • Looking forward to work tomorrow!
15
Sep

Star wars Church Series

Gotta love anything Star Wars.

Check this out!

16
Aug

Continued…

Someone came up to me and asked how the message went because I never finished this post about.

So this is for you “Culligan Man”.  I have since preached again, but first things first.

God was definitely all over that message just like I felt He was.  I think numbers wise there were 5 recommitments to Christ and somewhere around 12-15 said they were tired of being  “hypocrites” and wanted to stop being that way.

It was a great time and it felt great to be back involved in youth ministry.  I also got the opportunity to play guitar and sing a song.

This past Sunday I got to preach again.  I finished up the “Edges” series called destinations.  Deborah had been preaching about different countries and how slavery still exist today.  They learned about a 15 year old boy who is making a huge difference in the world and in slavery.  They also talked about Islam and persecution.

The message I did was Destination “YOU”.  It was basically about God created you to be you.  It’s ok to be you.  Be who he created you to be.  Also challenged them to make a difference in the world.  Either by doing something on a huge global scale or by just locally being someone’s bible.  Stand up for what they believe in.

I think the 1st service was a little rough, but the second I did a little better.  I heard on Monday from some parents that their kids really enjoyed me being up there.  AGAIN… it was great to be involved in youth ministry!

09
Aug

God is in the Blog!

I have really enjoyed getting into reading and posting blogs.  I gotta tell ya that today God spoke to me through a few different blogs that I have read.

First that I’ll mention is one I just read a little while ago from Mark Batterson:

Had to share one thought from the leadership seminar at the Assemblies of God General Council. Dary Northrop shared an amazing story about a stripper that found Christ at their Church–Timberline church. And he talked about how when you’re really reaching the unchurched it is messy! Then he shared a thought from the parable of the prodigal son.

If the younger brother had run into his elder brother first he would have never made it inside the house! Unfortunately, our churches are filled with the elder brother spirit. And sometimes it is the religiousity of elder brothers that can actually keep prodigals from reuniting with their Heavenly Father! That thought was worth the trip to Indy!

Dary also talked about the difference between loving people before they change and after they get cleaned up. That is the challenge and the trick! He said people won’t change until they are fully loved. I think he’s right!

Man… isn’t that so true?  I was just in blockbuster the other day and the guy mentioned something about church and dissed it.  I spoke up and said, Maybe you just haven’t found the right church.  He said I just couldn’t put up with all the politicing that goes on there and how the people with all the money has the power.  When I went to Puerto Rico, almost everyone I talked to had been to church and had stopped going because of the people in the church.  When are we going to start loving one another first and start representin’ Christ’s love?

I also think that this post from Perry is awesome and I can think of quite a few people I know that need to hear it.  So check it out! Now! Seriously, I’ll wait…

Ok, done?  I know some people could get mad at this statement, but GOD IS LOVE!  I know he has wrath, righteousness, justice and all that other stuff, but everything He does, comes from His perfect love for us.

There were a couple more that spoke to me… but I’ll save them for another time.  Plus I gotta get more organized with my clippings from bloglines.  Check out this post if you have no idea what i’m talking about. I use bloglines and I can keep up with my 34 blogs I’m reading and it only takes minutes a day.

16
Jul

Be a Cheerful Giver!

Holy Cow! Have you ever heard a church cheer when the pastor says it’s time to take up the offering?

Me neither.

Until tonight!

Check this out and listen closely around 1:35!

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